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“Fatherhood is Building the Riverbanks”


Listen to Pastor Crawford Loritts speak a great message on “Lessons Learned from My Father.” I particularly appreciate how he relates fatherhood to building riverbanks. Like the mighty waters of a river, life will come and things will happen, but fathers are the ones who set the parameters, who define the boundaries, who steer the direction of their childrens’ lives towards Jesus and godliness. Dads, give it a listen.

A few quotes:

  • “Greatness is not pop or fad. Greatness has a staying power.”
  • “Manhood is not a private matter. It is a public thing. A man aspires to be the desired destination at which others arrive.”
  • “This summarizes my dad: Stepping up, never walking away, if it belongs to you, you do something with it.”
  • “There is a correlation between being a man and keeping promises.”
  • “Our disproportionate desire for relevance is injecting embalming fluid into the next generation.”
  • “Out of struggle comes strength; out of strength comes discipline; out of discipline comes integrity; out of integrity comes inheritance.”
  • “How people treat you should never define you. It’s not what people call you, but what you answer to.”
  • “All we have to give to the next generation is what we have become.”
  • “You don’t produce the fruit of the Spirit. It is the fruit of the Spirit.”
  • “Repent of wallowing in our self pity and deifying our disfunction. Yield. ‘God, I can’t do this. Help me!’ Believe him.”

Modeling Modesty

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One more post on the topic of womanhood, family, and modesty from our study of 1 Timothy. Click here to read a helpful looking booklet called Modeling Modesty by Mary K. Mohler, wife of Al Mohler (president of Southern Seminary).

From her opening:

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God, Manhood, & Ministry

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John Piper’s Desiring God ministry recently held their annual pastor’s conference  on God, Manhood, and Ministry.  Audio and video is now up for free streaming and download.

“Father Hunger” in Leading the Home
Doug Wilson

Lessons on Biblical Manhood Learned from His Father
Crawford Loritts

Being and Building Men for the Local Mission
Darrin Patrick

“The Frank and Manly Mr. Ryle” — The Value of a Masculine Ministry
John Piper

“Father Hunger” in Leading the Church
Doug Wilson

Below is the video of the Q&A with all the pastors

Time-markers —

00:50 — What is biblical femininity? (Wilson, Patrick)

05:12 — Does Christianity have a feminine feel? (Piper, Loritts, Patrick)

11:25 — How can fathers best care for their daughters? (Wilson, Patrick, Loritts)

15:44 — How do we know to apply strictness or mercy? (Wilson, Piper, Loritts)

24:55 — How do we model Christ in parenting foster children? (Piper, Wilson)

28:40 — Lessons for courage, boldness, and wisdom. (Atallah)

30:56 — How does Christian worship threaten the pattern of this world? (Wilson)

33:43 — How does masculinity relate to our worship music? (Piper, Wilson)

40:45 — What are strategies for building godly men? (Loritts, Patrick)

43:45 — How do we surround ourselves with godly men? (Patrick, Loritts, Wilson, Atallah)

52:53 — Counsel for fathers who want to rebuild relationships. (Wilson, Loritts, Piper, Patrick)

59:00 — Closing prayer. (Piper)

Your Ten Dollar Word of the Week: Complementarianism

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Just about everything in the Christian life is countercultural and counterintuitive. Biblical womanhood is no different. If you’re been around a good church for any length of time, chances are you’ve heard that biblical womanhood and worldly womanhood are radically different.

The debate on how the Bible deals with gender (and there is a debate) is incredibly important. It’s not simply theological nit-picking. When God created men and women in his image (Genesis 1:27), the personal and relational character of their Creator was stamped into them. Men and women by nature are personal, relational beings – just like God. This means that how we live out our personhood and relate to others day to day doesn’t just affect our lives here on earth, it actually affects how we, as image-bearers of God, display who God is to the world.

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